About Me
Hi, I’m Kirthan.
Death is difficult but you don’t have to do it alone.
I know firsthand how daunting it is to watch a loved one die and be faced with the many responsibilities of end-of-life care. Those tasks can be even more difficult when you don’t know what your loved one wants. I’m here to help organize your end-of-life wishes, provide traditional death doula care, and educate you about the realities of grief. .
How I got here
I spent the last decade working in social media and doing freelance writing for various online outlets. Even when I was doing that work, I occasionally found ways to infuse my death interests, such as interviewing Caitlin Doughty (founder of The Order of the Good Death) for She Does The City. In 2020 I started an Instagram account called @that_goodnight to begin educating people about all things related to death and grief. By 2021, I felt that community death care was calling my name. I completed the Death Doula program from Douglas College and later earned a certificate in Grief Education from OISE. As I’ve cared for multiple family members at end-of-life over the past five years, I’ve come to appreciate the complexities and daunting tasks involved in dying. That’s why I’m here to help you.
“Grief is just love with no place to go.”
— Jamie Anderson